Do you experience the “call” to manifest a Soul-fulfilling relationship in your life?
Looking back at my life, I always felt that there was someone out there who would be my perfect complement. I resonate with the Yin – Yang symbol: every part is whole in itself, but they complement each other perfectly.
Masculine and feminine energy have nothing to do with gender, everyone has both energies within them. Typically, men have more masculine energy, and women, usually have more feminine energy than masculine. Although this can be reversed as well.
The masculine energy is focused, giving, strong, balanced, decisive, and confident. The Masculine energy desires to serve and be of importance to the world around them.
The Feminine energy is flowing, radiant, creative, intuitive, passionate, fluid, and receiving. The feminine energy desires to create and be loved.
Both parts are necessary for the most powerful Creations. When they are whole and complete in themselves, they are able to co-create at a very high level.
But I always tried to ignore the desire I had to experience this kind of deep and Soul-fulfilling relationship.
Like most people, I carried around all kinds of limiting beliefs about love and relationships:
That real love didn’t exist. At least not for me.
That real love is something you only see in movies and that it will never happen in Real life.
That I simply couldn’t always have what I wanted in life and that I had “responsibilities.”
And I also had a lot of limiting beliefs about myself:
I thought that if people would see me for who I really was, they would leave me.
I felt scared to open up and I was afraid that I would end up alone if I would open up to the relationship I truly desired.
And it also felt too vulnerable. I was scared that I wasn’t able to handle the pain I would feel if I found true love and then it would be taken away from me.
And because of these limiting beliefs, I had all kinds of sabotaging patterns when it came to love and relationships.
My biggest sabotaging pattern was that I stayed in a marriage that wasn’t working for me for WAY too long. I felt I had a responsibility to make it “work” even though I felt in my heart that it wasn’t the right relationship for me.
It felt that I had over-romanticized the idea of a relationship and that I just had to keep committed to my marriage and work harder at it.
Maybe you recognize this: that’s it’s a big challenge sometimes to listen to your own inner voice when everybody is trying to tell you what to do and not to do or how you “supposed” to behave.
I did everything I could to make my marriage work and to make my ex-husband happy, but I just couldn’t seem to get there.
One day, around 2016 I had to admit to myself: “I am not happy in my marriage and whatever I do, I can’t seem to get my husband to be happy either.”
It’s time I start facing the feeling I have that I believe there is someone out there for me who complements me perfectly. And I knew this person was not my husband.
It was really scary to face my feelings and to let go of the sense of safety and security my marriage represented to me.
Because I knew what I had and I didn’t know what would happen if I would let go of my marriage.
Would I even be able to manifest the Soul-fulfilling relationship I desired with all of my heart?
Wasn’t it just some kind of fairy tale that was all inside my own head?
What if I left my husband and break up my family and I would never meet this person and I would end up alone for the rest of my life?
But I knew deep in my heart: I have to take this “risk.”
I can’t face myself if I don’t do everything I possibly can to follow this call I felt deep inside of me. It felt bigger than myself.
And I was already teaching people about the Law of Attraction. And the Law of Attraction says: “ask and it is given.”
So I HAD to trust the Universe that it would guide me in the most perfect and divine way.
Around that time I met someone. I didn’t recognize him as this person at first. I knew we had some kind of a connection, but I was still too attached to my marriage and the idea of keeping my family together to see what was there.
But over time the connection I had with him grew stronger and eventually, I recognized him as the person I always had been looking for.
He and I both made what I call a “Love list.” This is a list of what you desire in a potential partner and we recognized each other in our love lists.
Of course, I will teach you how to make a lovelist yourself, in this Coaching program.
We had long conversations to see if we could be this person for each other and it all seemed to line up.
It all seemed really amazing. I thought I had met the love of my life and I also finally had the courage to end my marriage.
But then something happened that I hadn’t expected: After a short, but amazing, time together he suddenly left my life.
I am not going into the personal details because that doesn’t matter at this point.
What matters is that I felt confused and devastated after he left me.
What happened to me next is something I haven’t shared with a lot of people.
Because what I have noticed is that people who haven’t experienced this themselves, don’t seem to understand.
If I am honest with you, I was even hesitant to share this personal story with you. The first version of my sales page was totally different from what you are reading now.
I was not sure how my partner, and other people who know us, would react to my personal story.
But eventually, It was him who encouraged me to share this story exactly how I am sharing it right now.
He said that I am only able to serve people the best I can if I share the truth and don’t hold anything back and I have to admit that I fully agree with him.
Even though these types of Soul connections aren’t really understood by people who experienced it themselves.
I have a friend who experienced an intense Soul connection a couple of years earlier and I have to admit I was a little bit judgemental about her too back then.
I thought she was obsessed with this person and I said to her: “Why don’t you just let him go? Why don’t you just move on?”
But I learned, there is no “moving on” from a Soul connection this intense.
A Soul connection this deep asks something totally different of you.
It was like I couldn’t move on from this person.
He was in my head 24/7.
It was like we where connected on a deep level.
It felt like he was with me all the time, without him being there.
I never ever had any trouble “moving on” from a relationship, but this was somehow different.
And believe me, I did everything I could to “move on.”
I tried cord cuttings, meditations or the more firm approach of giving myself a kick in the but and some motivational pep talks that I wouldn’t even want to be with someone who left me just like that.
And I eventually also tried dating other men.
But nothing worked.
I just couldn’t seem to move on.
Can you relate to any of this?
Even if you haven’t met your person yet, there still can be this kind of obsession around actually meeting this person and handeling all these intense and deep feelings.
You just want to get rid of the pain and the confusion and start experiencing the love and connection you crave inside.
And in order to make this happen, people do all kinds of things that are not helping them to manifest the Soul-fulfilling relationship they desire.
Like following readings to get answers, and therefore searching for the answers outside of themselves.
Or chasing their beloved to “get” the relationship.
Or blocking them to make a point how “hurt” they are or playing games in general.
Or trying to make them jealous so they come back.
Or behaving in certain ways to let the other person know how amazing and special you are.
Or complaining about the other person because he or she isn’t “awake.”
Or “waiting” for the other person to “wake up” so they could finally be together.
Or getting lost in addictions and other unhealthy behavior to not feel the pain and emptiness you are experiencing.
Or getting into relationships with other people to not be alone, although you know in your heart these relationships are not serving you at the highest level.
ALL of these strategies often push love further away because they are coming from a place of lack and fear and not from a place of love and connection.
I knew in my heart there was another way. And I am happy to share with you that now I am 100% sure there IS another way.
Somewhere deep down I knew and felt that this was a journey about LOVE and that all the attachment and codependency and judgment I was experiencing and also saw in other people, is keeping us separated from the relationship we desire to experience.
I already knew that life mirrors us because I have been teaching people about Manifesting since 2014 and I have been studying how we create our own reality since 2002.
So I thought: If people say this is a SOUL Journey, What I have to do to either attract this person back into my life OR attract the person who I AM meant to be with, is to have to get in ALIGNMENT with my Soul.
And what is our Soul MADE of? Of LOVE.
So I tried my best to release the attachment I had to the person and I started learning what love REALLY is and how to actually make choices based on LOVE.
At first, this was a challenge because I noticed that most people don’t know what Love REALLY is.
In my program, I will also share everything I know about Love with you.
Because what most people see as love is based on attachment, obligation, expectation, sacrifice, codependency, superficial bonds, and “physical contracts.”
But do you know what the beautiful thing is: The Universe DOES know what unconditional love is and it always mirrors back the choices you make.
So when I started to commit to the journey of choosing LOVE, the person I still loved with all my heart came back into my life.
I can’t say that it was “fairytale magic” right after he came back because he still mirrored back parts of me where I was choosing fear or separation over love.
Maybe you recognize this too, but don’t worry I will help you to deal with this.
But what I DID see, was that if I chose Love, we would grow closer and if I chose fear or separation, he would pull away again.
And what I also noticed, is that no matter what appeared to be happening between us in the physical world, he always loved me. The love was always there.
At the end of the day, creating harmony with your Soul is a Journey. You can never say you are “there” because I learned there is no “there” to arrive at. We are always creating and creation is always evolving.
The ego-mind always wants to “get” somewhere because it thinks that it will be better once it is arriving at that place.
But love is already available NOW.
Because Love is a CHOICE.
It has NOTHING to do with “chasing” the relationship. It has to do with becoming aware of the fact that love is available RIGHT THIS MOMENT.
The peace and the connection and the oneness you desire to feel when you would have the relationship is already available to you NOW. That is not dependent on your physical circumstances at ALL.
And if you start choosing love and start to connect to yourself on a deep level, then life will mirror back that love and connection to you.
THEN you will have the most amazing connection and the most amazing Soul-fulfilling relationship you can ever imagine with someone who is just perfect for you.
Because THEN you are building positive Karma. We LITERALLY experience in our physical reality the choices we make in our hearts.
When he left my life, I wasn’t choosing love at ALL. I thought I was, but I really wasn’t. I said I loved him and wanted to be with him, but I wasn’t REALLY choosing to LOVE him, myself, and Creation.
I wasn’t co-creating in complete alignment with my Soul, with who I really was, and with the truth of Creation.
I was still afraid to lose love and therefore I used all kinds of ego strategies to “get” love, just like most people do.
But you know what? You can never “lose” love. How can we “lose” something that we ARE?
If you learn how to choose love, the person you are meant to be with and who is your perfect match at that moment will be magnetized into your life. And you can keep growing, evolving, and learning together as long as you can contribute to each other’s lives.
It is the BEST feeling in the world, to learn on a deep level that love is already INSIDE you and love was always there and love will always be there.
It makes you feel safe and powerful to realize that YOU are the creator of the relationship you desire to experience. And that ALL you need to do is shift your beliefs, thoughts, and feelings to experience the relationship you always dreamed about.
And that is EXACTLY what I really want to teach you in this program. You will learn everything I know about manifesting the Soul-fulfilling relationship you desire.
If you connect to the love that is already inside of you, then you will attract the person that is perfect for you.
And you can call this a Twin Flame or a Soulmate, that doesn’t really matter, that is just a label. What REALLY matters is what you feel in your heart is possible and to start following your OWN inner guidance and the call of YOUR Soul.
And then YOUR person will show up and it will be amazing. It’s Divine Law that is called:
As within. So without.
“Lovers don’t finally meet somewhere. They’re in each other all along.” — Rumi
I have experienced it myself and saw it with a lot of my clients too and if you feel “the call” too, I would LOVE to teach you how this works.
And I would LOVE to invite you to learn how you can start creating a relationship in alignment with your Soul, so you can start experiencing everything you know in your heart is possible for you.