I regularly get them: cold-acquisition emails.
Emails of people who saw me online or who are following me, and who would really like to sell me a service or a product.
And strange as it is, they are usually food and weight-related.
They probably think: “Oh, Maartje is quite overweight. I can help her. Why don’t I start coaching her?”
The problem is though, that I haven’t asked for help in any way.
Because I really just don’t yet know what my view is on food and health from a Law of Attraction point of view. I’m still figuring out what my take on that is and I LOVE my body. I don’t believe that having more meat means unhealthy or being skinny means healthy.

And you know what I compare these kinds of situations to?
Say I run into a guy in a bar (I am happily married, so nowadays I don’t do the man-in-bar thing anymore, but just as an example).
The guy starts talking to me.
I haven’t even had the chance to think about what my take on him is, whether or not I want to have a chat with him, when he’s already pushing me up against the bar telling me he wants to have sex with me.
Maybe this is a turn-on for some people, but not for me.
I slap him across the face and run off.

I don’t want to be picked up like that, and I don’t want to be picked up like that in my business EITHER.
I want you to “wow” me.
As in: WOW, this person is SO awesome, I really want to learn more from him or her.
I want to see you first, I want you to stand out in the crowd.
I want to see you standing there from across the bar. There you are. You catch my attention. Our eyes meet. We pause and stare for a moment. I want to see who you are, what you do and whether or not you are worth investing in.

I want you to work as hard for me as I work for my clients.
I am no “easy lay”.
Not in a bar and not as a client.

So, don’t just push me up against the bar.
Magnetize me.
Make me admire you.
Make me buy YOU, before I buy your products or services.
Make me notice you online.
If necessary, buy MY program first, so I start noticing you. If you think I am that inspiring and want to work with me that badly, then that should be a no-brainer, right?

And you know what? WHEN you finally land me as a client, I’ll be one of the BEST clients you could ever wish for. Ask my coach, my stylist or whoever.
I bet you they are learning a lot from me too, and then I also pay them well.

I am WORTHY of being wowed.

I don’t know who the “cold-calling method” or the “I’ll push you up against the bar method” are working for, but they sure aren’t working with me.
And I’m GUESSING I’m not the only one.

Just a hint. See how you can translate this to your own marketing strategy.


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— Law of Attraction Expert and Business Alignment Coach.

— I help powerful creators, creative entrepreneurs, influencers, coaches, healers, leaders of the new era and everyone who wants to make money just by being themselves to Magically Manifest their life and business.
I teach them to live in accordance with the universal laws of Creation to effortlessly attract more clients, more money, more creativity and above all more freedom, connection to source, flow, fun, ease, and love.
Often they feel they want to do things in their own way and break out of all the boxes society has created for them. Somewhere deep down they feel they are meant for greatness and I help them to discover and express that greatness within them AND make money doing that.
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